女生最怕聽到男朋友說這10句話……

女生有時真的很複雜，這是事實。

所以男朋友在說某些話的時候一定要謹慎謹慎再謹慎！稍不注意，你就可能踩進雷區。

下面的這10句話，男生們，你們能不說就一定不要去嘗試，不然後果很嚴重！

10.She’s just a friend

她只是我一個朋友

Let’s imagine that your girlfriend starts getting jealous because she saw you with another girl. What we usually come up with to get out of the situation is to say that 「she’s just a friend」. But in the feminine world, it seems now that the word 「friend」 means lover, so the best thing you can do is to say it’s your distant cousin. Anything but she’s just a friend. Something women hate is to be taken for a fool especially when they know that you have a girlfriend with whom you text messages all day, go out to eat together.

試想一下，如果你女朋友撞見你和其他女孩在一起，吃醋怎麼辦？大多數人都會以「她只是我一個朋友」這個理由來擺脫困境。

但是，在女生的「詞典」里，「朋友」這個詞已經和「小三」差不多了，所以最好的辦法就是向女朋友解釋這只是你表妹或者誰都行，只要不是朋友。

女生最恨的就是被男生耍，特別是當她知道你和其他女生一直在秘密約會。

9.Are you going to go out dressed like that?

你確定要穿成這樣出去？

Clothing is essential to women’s lives. Practically for most of them, it’s the air they breathe, so no matter how ridiculous or suggestive the way she dresses, don』t, under any circumstances, insinuate to her that she looks bad or vulgar. At best, make her understand that another outfit would suit her better, but never tell her that what she’s wearing is a mistake. Asking her that can only have a negative ending: if she is offended, you will have a discussion; if she finds your opinion correct, you will be waiting an hour while another fifteen outfits are being tried. Either way, pal, you』re going to be fried, so you better shut up.

衣服簡直就是女孩的食糧。

幾乎對於所有女孩來說，沒有衣服穿，根本就活不下去。

所以，不管她們穿的衣服在你看來有多浮誇或者暴露都不要說不好看或者俗氣，你可以告訴她另一件衣服或許更適合她。

但你絕對要記住，不要直接挑戰她的品味。

如果你直接說她穿錯衣服了，只會帶來不好的後果：如果她怒了，你們會爭吵一架；如果她覺得你說的對，你會需要再等上一個小時，來看她換另外15件衣服。

朋友，如果你不想引火上身，那最好閉嘴吧。

8.You need to calm down

你先冷靜一下

Discussions between men and women in a relationship are very frequent, and women often end up being right. But if you』re in the middle of a fierce argument, and the first word that comes to mind to stop her screaming and complaining is 「you need to calm down,」 it will immediately make the exact opposite thing happen. Just listen and be quiet and wait for her to wear off.If she’s angry about something and you tell her to calm down, no doubt your suggestion will have the opposite effect.

情侶之間發生爭吵很常見，往往也是以女方勝利收尾。

但如果你們的爭論很激烈，女票情緒很激動，一直抱怨，你就很有可能會讓她「先冷靜下來」。

但如果你說了這句話，效果肯定會適得其反。

你要做的就是安安靜靜等她發泄完就好了。

如果她現在非常惱怒，你讓她先冷靜，那只會火上澆油。

7.You look a little bit fatter

你胖了一點哦

The typical phrase 「you look a little bit fatter」, no matter how sweetly or gently you try, there is no way to say it to a woman and take it well. She』ll directly hate you for life because, if you see her a little plumper, she’s already seen herself in the mirror and most likely feels 10 pounds heavier, so the best thing you can do is tell her the opposite, like she looks thinner or something. But if you』ve got the guts to tell her this, get ready to run away. Not only will you hurt her, but she’s going to physically attack you with everything she finds. Remember, it doesn』t matter how many times she asks you 「Am I fatter?」 The answer must always be 「no」.

「你看起來有一點點胖哦」，不管你表達得多溫柔，沒有一個女生愛聽這種話，她會立馬恨死你的。

因為你說的一點點胖，在她看來，最起碼有10倍胖。

不過你可以對她說，「最近變瘦了或者怎麼怎麼的」，這話女生絕對愛聽。

如果你有膽量告訴她「變胖了」，不想挨揍就趕緊跑吧。

不僅僅是你傷了她，她也會想盡一切辦法「報復」你的。

記住：不管女生問了你多少次「我是不是胖了？」答案永遠只有一個：「沒有」。

6.Sorry, I wasn』t paying attention

啥，我剛沒注意聽

If your girl talks to you, listen to her. There’s nothing worse than telling someone something important and not being heard. 「What did you say? I wasn』t listening to you.」 Fatal mistake, my friend. Even if you』re not listening, use alien intelligence. Look her in the eye and affirm or deny as the situation warrants. And even if you』re not at all interested in what she’s saying, try to pretend you are. One of the frequent mistakes of men is to believe that they should occupy all attention when it comes to conversation, and that is where women feel vulnerable.

如果女朋友給你說話，你好好聽就是了。

沒有什麼比告訴對方很重要的事情，而對方卻沒有在聽更糟糕的了。

「你剛剛說啥，我沒注意聽」，你要說了這句話，那就真的犯了大忌。

即使你真的沒有注意聽，那也要動腦子回答。

觀察當前局面，看著她的眼睛，給出是或不是。

縱然你對她的話題可能並不感興趣，那也要裝作認真在聽。

大多數男生都有這樣一個錯誤的觀念：認為在對話中，自己永遠占主導地位，這往往也讓女生很受傷。

5.I don』t have any money

我沒有錢

If you』re going out on a first date and you don』t have a dime, you better not go out. You』re going to look really bad if you hide in the bathroom when it is time to pay the bill. 「I forgot my wallet, did you pay?」 Never, but never, ever, ever, ever say this on a first date. Women will never take it as if it was an accident. On the contrary, they』ll think you』re a stingy jerk.

如果你們第一次約會，你毫無分文，那就最好不要出去。

不然到時候付帳，你躲在衛生間不出來，那就真渣到沒法形容了。

「我忘記帶錢包了，你要不要來付？」記住永遠永遠不要說這句話。

即使這是真的，女生也很難接受，相反地，她們會覺得你就是個小氣鬼。

4.Today is our anniversary?

今天是我們的紀念日？

Prepare the couch because that’s where you』ll sleep tonight, if the cat or the dog gives you its place. It is vitally important that you never forget your anniversary or your partner’s birthday. It is obvious that women are very emotional and sentimental, but the gods forgot to grant men good memory. But yes, men do not have long term memory, that strange capacity that all women have to remember events that happened a long time ago, however important or superfluous and unlikely they may have been.

或許這就是你今晚睡沙發，跟貓和狗狗搶窩的原因了。

你真的不能忘了你們的紀念日或者女朋友的生日，這太重要了。

女生有時真的很情緒化，很敏感，但男生在這方面的記憶一般又比較差。

偏偏女生在這方面又比較厲害，她們可以記得很久以前發生的事情，不管重不重要。

3.Take good care of me

照顧好我

Some people say that when we are in love and we decide to start a family, it must be very clear that both members come from different families. This means that the ways of doing things, customs and experiences will be different. However, on the one hand, there is the latent machismo that is sustained by both men and women when they affirm that it is the man who must financially support the household, and that the woman stays at home taking care of the children. The good news is that these days things have changed, as equitable relationships have left aside these customs. Dude, you』re a big boy and your wife or girlfriend isn』t your mommy to keep an eye on you all day.

從相戀到開始建立一個家庭，就一定要明白：兩人的成長環境不同，可能處理事情的方式，或者文化習俗還有經歷都會有所差異。

然而，在有些男生和女生的概念里，大男子主義還是一直存在，他們認為男生永遠是家庭支柱，女生的職責就只是相夫教子。

不過現在，這種傳統觀念變了很多，在戀愛關係中男女地位越來越平等。

所以男生們，你們已經長大了，記住：你的妻子或女朋友不是你媽媽，需要整天圍著你轉。

2.Your friend is gorgeous

你朋友好漂亮啊

Be very careful when making comments that can damage a relationship or make her feel jealous. There are things that, if you』re going to say to women, you have to do it carefully, or better not even try. Your girlfriend knows that this particular friend is sexy and beautiful, so she doesn』t need to be reminded. This can only lead to jealousy and insecurity, which will inevitably lead to fights and the possible end of the relationship. Irremediably every woman will always have a friend who thinks she’s much prettier than she is, so if you think about it, act smart and be quiet. The best option is always to keep it secret and make sure you don』t carry out attitudes that are too obvious.

誇別人的時候一定要小心啦，很有可能隨時毀掉你們的關係，或者讓女朋友吃醋。

如果你想夸其他女生，一定要謹慎，要麼你最好就不要做。

你女朋友當然知道她朋友性感漂亮，根本不需要你來提醒。

這樣只會讓她嫉妒或者沒有安全感，接下來不可避免就是爭吵，嚴重的話，你們之間也可能玩完了。

每個女生都會有比她漂亮的朋友，即使你也這樣認為，那也聰明一點，不要提這個話題。

最好的選擇就是保持沉默，不要表明自己的態度。

1.My ex-girlfriend used to…

我前任怎麼怎麼...

Nothing good can come out of a talk about ex-girlfriends, unless you』re remarking how much better you are right now, even though that’s a very delicate line. That phrase is one of the worst things you can say to your partner. To begin with, you』ll imply that you』re still very conscious of your ex. You have to understand that all people are different and therefore all relationships will be different. It’s not flattering and no one likes to feel compared to anyone else, much more so if it was someone from the past that marked your life.

一般提及前任就不會有什麼好事，除非你現在特別優秀，當然這很難評判。

這個話題是你跟現任交流最大的雷區之一，只要一開口，就說明你還沒有徹底放下前任。

你應該明白每個人都不一樣，所以你們相處的方式也會有所不同。

這不是奉承，沒有人喜歡別人拿自己和其他人比較，更過分的是這個人還曾在你的生命中占據了很重要的一部分。

男生們可得記牢了哦。